Social Attraction Academy: Dating Coach For Men | The Ultimate Guide (With Videos & Illustrations)

Dating Coach For Men #1 – How to Become an Attractive Man

In this episode, Gary Gunn, a dating coach for men, outlines how instead of following a chasing mentality worrying about what to text a girl or when to text back, for example, you can focus on creating an attractive lifestyle where women will want to be part of what you’re doing. In this podcast Gary will outline three ways to achieve this:

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How to become an attractive man by reading more books – This will enhance your ability to continue a conversation with women by broadening your literary knowledge, making you a better communicator, and therefore more charismatic to women.
How to become an attractive man by creatively self-expressing – Any creative avenue you pursue like singing, playing the guitar, photography or writing, for example, is extremely attractive to women as serves to highlight individuality and creativity.
How to become an attractive man by travelling and exploring new places – Take in the experience of what it’s like to live in a city by going on a walking tour and visiting the art galleries or museums for example. This will add to your conversation ammunition by having different experiences to speak to women about and will also help fuel your creative self –expression.

Dating Coach For Men #2 – How To Approach A Girl At A Bar

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn explains natural and easy ways to approach a girl at a bar, and how to avoid the typical and unattractive behaviours men can fall into, such as standing too far away and finding an excuse to go back and pass by the girl in an obvious way.

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Gary discusses the value of gaining immediate proximity by sitting near the girl or group of girls from the outset and also placing yourself in a prime location area like the high chairs at the bar. Other simple and quick ways include:

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Dating coach for men #1 – How to approach a girl at a bar by asking a girl to take a photo of you – This is the easiest and uncomplicated way to initiate contact with a girl as you can look at the pic afterwards and exchange a few words over it.
Dating coach for men #2 – How to approach a girl at a bar by asking her opinion about the topic that you’re discussing with your friends – it’s easy to turnaround and say “Excuse me…What’s your opinion on this…” which engages her spontaneously in the conversation in a low key way and fun way.
Dating coach for men #3 – The final way of approaching a girl at a bar is through a social introduction – Being sociable and enjoying yourself with everyone at the bar increases your social value and will entice girls to want to talk to you.

How To Attract Women In Bars & Clubs | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #3 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn outlines how to attract a woman instantly. Gary describes how you can give women the instinctive response that you are attractive within the first few seconds of meeting them. Listen to these easy yet critical ways to become immediately more attractive:

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How to attract a woman instantly by what you’re wearing – Appealing to the archetypes of style that woman find attractive, such as the ‘bad boy’ style or the ‘successful man’ who looks well put together, will make an instant impression.
Using your body language to attract a woman instantly – Listen as Gary explains immediate ways to convey confidence from the way you sit or stand. He also explains how to avoid body language that comes across negatively to women when they first meet you.
Using eye contact to attract a woman instantly – Gary outlines how to give off signs of ‘alpha male eye contact’ which will ensure you come across as confident and self-assured in your conversation with women.

Dating Coach For Men #4 – What To Text A Girl You Like

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn provides advice on what to text a girl that you like and when. Listen as Gary discusses how to avoid needless time and frustration in trying to organise a date by text, and clarifies how to use ‘intermittent texting’ to your benefit as well as how to create a connection in a fun interactive way. This podcast also discusses the importance of being genuine and how to recognise whether the girl is actually into you or not.

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Dating coach for men #1 Use Intermittent texting – This is when you allocate time in your day to text a girl back. In this allocated time you can text as much as you like but only within these set hours. Find out how this makes you come across as more confident and relaxed, and sets up any relationship the right way from the start.
Dating coach for men #2 Use emojis – Listen as Gary throws light on how and when to use emojis effectively in your messages.
Dating coach for men #3 – Learn how to text a girl you like by adding some ‘interaction’ to your messaging by guessing what they’ve been up to today and also using photos in a fun collaborative way to help you stand out.

How To Text Women | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #5 – Social Anxiety – Causes, Symptoms and How To Cure It

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn defines what social anxiety is and how and why it develops in a person. This podcast is for the 1% of people who no longer want to ignore or bury their social anxiety but instead have made the decision to face it and change their life for the better. Listen as Gary outlines three powerful ways to help rid yourself of social anxiety:

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Help overcome social anxiety by setting a goal with a deadline – Gary provides his unique way of goal setting which utilises our fundamental fear of missing as a means of ensuring you meet your goal of starting a conversation with anyone new.
Cure social anxiety by breaking it down into smaller steps in your mind and using the power of visualisation – Gary divulges how to apply this mentality into any social interaction you have with someone new, thereby making anxiety more manageable, and building self – efficacy over a period of time.
Using role models to help conquer social anxiety – Gary discusses the importance of seeking out real people in your life who are already very confident socially, spending time with them and soaking up their own belief system to help you overcome your social anxiety.

Dating Coach For Men #6 – How To Carry On A Conversation With Women

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn discusses how to effectively carry on a conversation with women. Gary speaks about how this can be a sticking point for many men as it requires a different skillset to keep a conversation flowing. He outlines the main techniques in how to achieve this and also discusses how to avoid being off-putting in conversation. Here are a few of the techniques listed:

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How to carry on a conversation with women by simply moving to a different location – This can be as simple as moving to a seated area in a bar or leaning against a wall out of the way. Listen as Gary explains how this is a powerful psychological tool in transforming an interaction from two people who have just met each other into two people now ‘in dialogue together’.
Carry on a conversation with women effectively by inviting someone else to join the conversation – Involving someone else, or a group of other people allows that interaction and social dynamics to flourish and shows you in a positive light; as a confident and attractive guy who can have fun with other people.
Simply talking more will help you carry on a conversation with women – Gary explains how to avoid plying a girl with question after question and refers to the analogy of a cocktail maker, making sure that you give them all the ingredients that they may need to do their job, and explains how it works the same in conversation.

How To Keep A Conversation Going With Women | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #7 – How To Connect With Women

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn explains how to connect with women by putting your ego to one side and allowing the person that you’re speaking with to feel that you understand their view of the world.

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If you can do that, that connection will be strong and that connection will be powerful. Listen as Gary discusses ways to do this and how they all tie in together:

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Connect with women by asking open-ended questions – Learn this useful technique to keep a conversation flowing and build an instant connection with anyone you meet in a simple and easy way.
Connect with women by reflective listening – This is a great tool to learn to tune into how a person feels and show that you understand their view of the world before then being able to demonstrate rapport and build the first foundations of trust.

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Connect with women by demonstrating empathy – When we connect with someone, it shouldn’t be about our own goals, it should be allowing that person to feel deeply understood. In this part of the episode, you will learn a psychological way of forming a bond with a girl that reflects back her personality in a natural and easy way.

How To Build An Emotional Connection With Women | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #8 – The Fear Of Approaching Women

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn tackles the fear of approaching women and breaks it down to be less threatening.

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Gary recounts three very different clients who have attended his training courses, who each had a particular underlying issue causing this fear of approaching women and the moment when they experienced that impactful moment where this fear lost its power over them. Some of the principles covered in this podcast include:

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Mastering being out of your comfort zone to help get over your fear of approaching women.
Reducing competition to help get over the fear of approaching women – The simple act of stopping competing with yourself and with other people helps take away the pressure and the burden of feeling overwhelmed. The result of this is that you’ll be more relaxed and when you’re more relaxed, you come across much more attractive to women.
Overcoming the fear of approaching women by deciding to face your fear – When you make that decision to rid yourself of this fear once and for all, your psychology changes as you’re telling yourself that you’re no longer scared and someone who simply waits for things to happen, and your dating confidence completely changes.

Dating Coach For Men #9 – The Best Online Dating Photos To Use

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn provides insight into the best online dating photos to use in your profile. Gary speaks about the hazard of having professional photos and outlines three ways to achieve the best natural-looking photos that will show you in your best light and divulges how he first became involved in improving people’s online dating profiles:

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The best online dating photos to use #1 – Effective Headshot – Gary discusses the importance of having a natural looking photo, finding the right type of background with some colour, the use of a prop. He also speaks of the benefit of using the right lens to automatically make the background blurred which has the effect of allowing you to pop out of the image.

The best online dating photos to use #2 – Action shot – Taking an action shot of you doing something that you enjoy like running or playing the guitar, for example, paints a great picture of what you love to women when they see your profile picture.
The best online dating photos to use #3 – Socialising shot – Having a picture of you other people smiling and having fun together shows that you are socially aware and have friends, which helps build trust in the person viewing the picture.

Dating Coach For Men #10 – How To Seduce Women

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn discusses how to seduce women the right way. Gary begins by giving valuable background and context to the term seduction, and addresses how we all love to be seduced in some way; whether by music, by artwork, or even by the resonance of someone’s voice – as each can affect a powerful instinctive feeling in a woman. In this podcast Gary outlines the main archetypes that seduce women and explains how having an understanding of them will make you more attractive to women:

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How to seduce women #1– the security provider – This is someone who will come across to women as being in control, someone who isn’t so easily influenced by the outside world and who is adept at making the woman to feel safe and secure in his presence.

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How to seduce women #2 – the mood enhancer – This is someone who can recognise when a girl that you’re dating is giving a positive go-ahead signal that there’s trust and who can ‘enhance the mood’ by focusing on her senses: the taste, the touch, the smell, the sight and sound. Being emotionally aware and sensitive to what’s going on will keep the flow of the mood and allow the girl to feel that moment of seduction.

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How to seduce women #3 – the empathy builder – This is someone who excels at building a connection with women, particularly useful when a girl is being noncommittal, disinterested or closed off in her responses in conversation. Learn how to build empathy thereby allowing her to relax and see you as a potential opportunity of someone to date through the use of techniques like reflective listening.

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The Art Of Seduction With Women | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #11 – How To Flirt With Women Via Their Emotional Control System

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn outlines how to flirt with women via their emotional response system. Listen as Gary asserts how using humour, not taking yourself too seriously, being playful and relaxed all work to your benefit, because the more playful you are, the more signals that you’re giving women that you are emotionally well and fun to be around. Here are three of Gary’s favourite and most effective techniques that he teaches on his training courses:

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Dating coach for men #1 – How to flirt with women via their emotional response system by imagining that you have ten gold coins – Find out how imagining that you have ten gold coins will help you retain mystery in your conversation with a woman and become a leader in an interaction, simply by not answering women’s questions directly. This is a really fun and flirty way to engage a woman in conversation and become more interested in you.
Dating coach for men #2 – How to flirt with women via their emotional response system by using alpha male eye contact – This technique focuses on adopting the right body language of success and confidence before progressing to prolonged eye contact. Listen as Gary gives tips on how to master this eye contact and recognise its effectiveness in the woman that you’re flirting with.
Dating coach for men #3 – How to flirt with women via their emotional response system by deliberately misinterpreting what they’re saying – Misinterpreting what a girl is saying in a way that shows off that she’s hitting on you is a super successful way to be flirty as it shows confidence and humour. In this section, Gary gives great examples of how to do this.

How To Flirt With Women Using Reflections | Gary Gunn | Full Length HD

Dating Coach For Men #12 – How to get back into dating

In this dating podcast episode for men, Gary Gunn gives his ultimate guide; the top 15 ways that you can use immediately that will help you get back into dating. If you’ve been single for a while then this podcast will be transformative, as Gary outlines fun ways to go out and start dating different types of women and enjoy different types of conversation and experiences and addresses some commonly asked dating questions: